Pink candle
Pink — the Color of Gentle Feelings
Pink is the color of tender emotions, sincerity, romance, infatuation, family, friendship, children, and emotional healing.
A pink candle symbolizes harmony and love in all its forms: romantic, platonic, family love, and self-love.
Astrologically, pink is connected with the planet Venus — the cosmic ruler of beauty, relationships, and our values.
According to Al-Mukhaytib, if you are seeking true love, you can confidently use a pink candle. When it comes to real love, pink is better than red. Red is more associated with physical love or lust.
When to Use
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In rituals aimed at enhancing femininity and beauty
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To boost self-esteem
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To harmonize relationships
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In rituals for attracting love
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For healing emotional wounds
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To restore trust and peace in the family
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For balancing your inner state
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In rituals to attract people to each other
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In rituals for women related to fertility and childbirth
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To attract friends into your life
Which Chakra It Corresponds To
Pink is associated with the Anahata chakra, especially for women. This is why these candles are very effective in meditations and heart center work.
How to Work with a Pink Candle
Define your intention.
Before starting the ritual, think about exactly what you want to achieve with your spell. Formulate your intention in one clear sentence. For example: “I want to improve my relationship with my husband/wife” or “I want to meet a reliable and loving man/woman.” You can hold this intention in your mind or write it down on paper.
Prepare and cleanse the space where you will perform the ritual. Choose a quiet, peaceful place. Light a bundle of sage or palo santo, then extinguish it. Smudge the room to remove any negative energies. If you don’t have sage or palo santo, simply open a window to air out the space.
Place around the candle any meaningful items you wish to include in the ritual: herbs, crystals, photographs.
Important! There are crystals with unique properties that enhance spells with pink candles:
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Rose Quartz: attracts romantic love, promotes self-love, helps heal old wounds and opens new possibilities.
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Aventurine: connected with the heart chakra, used for prosperity and luck in love.
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Moonstone: brings balance and luck in love. It is believed to reunite lovers who are emotionally or physically separated.
Prepare your candle by anointing it with an essential oil that matches your intention. If you don’t have a specific oil, use extra virgin olive oil. Rub it into the candle with your fingers.
Important! If you want to release something (old hurts, insecurity, etc.), rub the oil from top to bottom. If you want to attract something (new love, harmony in relationships, etc.), rub the oil from bottom to top.
Essential oils info:
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To attract love: cinnamon, jasmine, vanilla, or rose oil
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To let go of something: nutmeg or sesame oil
Visualize your intention as vividly as possible and say it out loud. Then light the candle.
How to Use a Pink Candle Together with Another Color
Each candle color has unique power and energy. By combining colors, you can merge their effects and expand your ritual’s impact.
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Brown: balance, stability, grounding — add a brown candle to create a relationship that is loving and stable.
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Red: passion, sensuality, courage, life force — combining pink and red candles will strengthen the emotional bond with a partner and ignite passion.
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Orange: energy, enthusiasm, creativity, success, change
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Yellow: abundance, charm, intellect, happiness
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Green: money, luck, prosperity, growth, fertility
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Blue: wisdom, clarity, communication, calmness, trust
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Black: protection, banishing negativity, revealing secrets, removing curses
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White: peace, calm, clarity, renewal, cleansing, optimism
Rituals Using a Pink Candle
1. Spell for Self-Esteem
You’ll need:
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A mirror
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A pink candle
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A rose quartz crystal
Steps:
Sit in front of the mirror and place the pink candle and rose quartz in front of you. Light the candle and look at yourself in the mirror, saying loudly:
I love myself completely and unconditionally.
I treat myself with love and respect.
I make the right choices for myself.
So be it! So it is! So it will be!
Practice this daily for a few minutes. Keep a journal of your progress. You will feel the results of working with these affirmations.
2. To Attract Friendship
You’ll need:
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A pink candle
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A toothpick
Steps:
On the candle, from the wick to the base in a spiral, carve with the toothpick the name + name an odd number of times. Then light the candle. Look at the flame and visualize the desired outcome as if it has already happened.
Perform this ritual for an odd number of days until the candle burns down completely.
3. To Improve Friendships and Work Relationships
You’ll need:
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2 pink candles
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A toothpick
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Pen and paper
Steps:
Take two pink candles. On one, carve your name with the toothpick, and on the other — the other person’s name, starting from the wick.
Place the candles about 10–12 cm apart.
Meditate on the specific situation, gazing at the candle flames for 7 days. Each day, move the candles closer together.
On the last day, write your wish on paper and place it under the candles, now standing close together.
When the candles burn out, burn the paper and scatter the ashes in the wind.
4. Spell to Fulfill Your Desires
You’ll need:
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2 candles (pink + another color)
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Pen and paper
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Sage and incense
Steps:
Prepare two candles: one will represent you, the other — your goal.
Example:
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If you want to attract more clients to your business, use a pink candle for yourself (symbol of warmth and hospitality) and a green candle for your goal (money).
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If you want to attract a partner, choose a red candle for yourself (passion) and a pink candle for that person.
Plan the ritual for the right time. It’s best to do this during the waxing moon at night.
Important! If it’s your first time doing this ritual, start at the New Moon or wait for the waxing moon.
Create a magical atmosphere: smudge the space with sage, light incense, pray, and ask your guides to help you.
Place the candles on your work table, about 45 cm apart.
Clear your mind and clearly state your intention. Write it on paper as a text, symbol, or drawing. Fold the paper and cut it into seven pieces. Arrange these seven pieces in a line between the candles.
Light the candles and visualize your wish coming true. Feel how wonderful it is to have what you want and stay in this state for a while.
When you’re ready, take the piece of paper closest to the goal candle and hold it between your palms. While visualizing, gently blow on the paper. If you can, dip it into the flame of both candles and let it burn.
When the piece burns out, move the goal candle one step closer to the main candle, filling the space with the burned piece.
Close your sacred space for the night. You may let the candles burn or gently extinguish them (do not blow them out!).
Continue the ritual each night for 7 nights, burning one piece each night and moving the goal candle closer until the two candles stand side by side. Let them burn down naturally.
This ritual starts working in about 28 days.
Important! If you don’t see progress by then, reflect on whether you truly desire what you asked for and whether anyone’s free will is being opposed.
Note: What the Flame of a Pink Candle Says
While the candle burns, observe its flame to see if the ritual worked:
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If the flame is steady, strong, and tall — your intention was clear, and the ritual worked.
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If the flame is weak and small — your intention may have been unclear. Try to refocus and visualize what you want more clearly.
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If you hear crackling, hissing, or popping — this could mean a spirit or entity is trying to contact you through these sounds.
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If the candle won’t light — negative forces may be interfering. Try again a bit later.
All material, including the rituals, is compiled from various open sources online.
